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Tonya Kay

Tonya Kay photo courtesy Tonya KayTonya Kay is an actress, TV personality, professional dancer and danger artist living in Los Angeles. A vegetarian of 28 years, vegan for 18 of those and raw vegan for the last 11, Tonya Kay pioneers the green health movement with appearances, publications and green media (available at KayosMarket). Watch Tonya Kay's self-produced web series The Eco Tourist on EcoHearth's Eco Tube. You may have also seen her recently on TV's My Ride Rules, The Tonight Show, Criminal Minds, Glee, House MD, Secret Girlfriend and American Idol with Rhianna. She has performed live in STOMP, De La Guarda, with Panic At The Disco, Kenny Rogers and in countless music videos and commercials. Look for Tonya Kay in the new Muppets Movie, starring in MTV Network's Video Game Reunion, playing a lead in the scripted animal-activist feature film, Bold Native, performing the voice of Green Girl in the raw vegan superhero animated film Rawman and Green Girl and performing burlesque live in Hollywood, California, almost any weekend. In 2012, Tonya Kay will star in the films Off World and Within The Darkness. For more on Tonya Kay, visit her website.

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'Burning Man' Checklist: Two Essential Items Left Off Most Packing Lists
Friday, 10 August 2012 00:00  |  Written by Tonya Kay | Blog Entry

Burning Man 2008 photo by phatteddyI got mothered right my first year at Burning Man. Otherwise, for example, how would I have figured out exactly what to take to Burning Man? Yes, it is helpful to have a packing and camping list—including mortally necessary protective items. But a veteran can also pass along knowledge of the taboos residents are expected to adhere to. That's why, your first time, you need a mother.

Below I will share a short list of necessary items and some important tips. Most importantly, I'll inform you of two essential items that are left off most Burning Man checklists.

What Is Burning Man?
For those unfamiliar with Burning Man, it is a book, a documentary, a planet unto itself. I cannot feasibly describe the magick of the world's most celebrated fire ritual, intentional community and art playground in a few paragraphs or even a few days.

Burning Man is a week-long intentional community of 50,000 (and ever growing) international (intergalactic?) residents who converge on a dried lakebed in the Nevada desert to become temporary residents of what becomes Black Rock City—a city with an alternative community design, which includes no commerce, no trash cans, no laws and no right angles. Yes, Black Rock City is circular in structure and you can't buy anything or advertise anything, differentiating it from more common music festivals wherein attendees (not residents) go from music stage to music stage, stopping at refreshment and merchandise stands in between.

The residents build an entire functioning city—with streets, speed-restricted vehicles and an airport that every year lands more than 300 flights without incident (as of today, more than three decades since its inception). All this without laws. Instead of laws, taboo rules the residents. There are certain things you just don't do because they contradict the taboo that the community enforces. You simply aren't a part of the community if you vandalize, steal, fight or litter.

Burning Man-Specific Art
An entire genre of Burning Man-specific art was born there. It is clearly defined by Burning Man residents, which you can call yourself as soon as you attend.

People build roller-skating rinks, better-than-in-the-movies dance clubs, pirate ships, five-story teeter totters and costumes (or not!), including the most elaborate of harsh-climate attire you can imagine on Earth or anywhere else. All in the name of the Burn.

The Burning of the Man
The burning of The Man is the central ritual of the entire experience and much of the art constructed follows suit. Burning, burning, burning these things we've taken weeks and months to build. Burning the things we've played in, danced on and changed our lives around.

The fire is the ritual that unites us all, and to me it is a shaking of the fist to the sky. Burning the Man is an exclamation to the universe that we know this life is fleeting. Instead of grasping, trying to hold on and creating a doomed community that is so afraid of dying that it overpopulates with forever-materials and right angles and ego-status icons, we will burn. We will burn what we love to the ground. We will dance and live and love this life and this art we create, and then we will set it aflame. We will let go of everything. We will die and we will live fully in the meantime.

But that's really just the tip of the iceberg. I mean, really… Burning Man is a book, it's a documentary and it's a planet unto itself. So the feeble descriptive paragraph above is a joke I told sitting at the bar in comparison.

The Virgin Burner
There are things the virgin Burner needs to know. And I do hope that everyone everywhere can become a resident of Black Rock City at least once in their lives. I personally live in Hollywood, California, and I consider the 12-hour drive a small investment when I think of the residents flying in from London, Sydney, Rio, Anchorage et al. It's worth the week to change your life forever.

And now, this being my sixth year at the Burn, I am invested in my Black Rock City community and as much as I extend a genuine invitation to everyone on the planet to meet me there, I am noticing the community mothers are not doing their jobs. Virgins come in to the city and they know they need goggles, they know they need sun protection, they know to bring at least two gallons of water/day per person. That's all good and well. In fact, I'm pretty sure there is a thorough Burning Man checklist online somewhere doing that kind of mothering. [Here's a good one: The Newbies Guide to Packing For Burning Man. - Ed.] But veteran Burners, don't let our community down. Don't sit at your camp complaining because the new kids don't have personal solar panels for off-the-grid electricity and are falling over drunk, acting like dongs. Instead, help me mother them right.

Left Off Most Lists
There are two things that virgin Burning Man attendees need to know that they may not get from a check of any other online list:

1. Burning Man is about gifting first and foremost. The first question we mothers should ask our virgins is, "What are you bringing to gift away?" Each resident should bring 50 somethings to simply gift away at random during their stay. It does not matter if it is 50 handmade necklaces, 50 glow sticks, 50 shoulder massages or as I do: 50 apples. It is imperative to give when you are at Burning Man. After all, no one can purchase anything, so we must experiment with things being free. Even bartering is looked down upon—you don't trade an item for an item as if the item itself has value and you can trade for its worth. No, at Burning Man the human being has value and is worthy of gifts given randomly and without expectation of return. This may sound altruistic, but when you gift your items away, you will realize that there is no better feeling in the world and you have just in actuality gifted yourself a feeling of freedom. "So what are you bringing to gift away?"

2. Burning Man is a no-trace event. The only reason we’ve been allowed to create chaos, massive explosions and sound structures like this every year for more than three decades is that we’ve left no trace of having been there. Every year for 30 years. No bottle caps. No cigarette butts. No dirty water. After all, the pristine desert lakebed we are living on is a fragile eco-system and we all know what magick is held in the space of Black Rock City. Let our magick be clean, let our environment thrive and please let us come back year after year because we demonstrate that we know the implications and responsibilities of freedom.

These two items must be added to every Burning Man preparation list. Mother these ideas to your playa family. And I'll see you at the Burn!

Additional resources:
How to Stay Raw Vegan at Burning Man—Or While Traveling Anywhere

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Comments (3)add
Written by terence , July 12, 2011
#1 and #2 are great advice for Burning Man, all travel and living life. Thanks, Tonya, for the timely piece!
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Written by TJ , August 18, 2010
Great advice for the newbie. Thanks Tonya. People should follow your #1 and #2 rules on a day to day basis as well!
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Written by Steve the Kaleidoscope Guy , August 17, 2010
“May the dragon of life only roast your hot-dogs and never burn your buns!”

“The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn” David Russell

It's better to burn out, than to fade away.
Neil Young

I was the first woman to burn my bra - it took the fire department four days to put it out.
Dolly Parton

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